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Friday Thought · Fri 26 July 2024

One calamity is better than a thousand pieces of advice

A Turkish proverb about learning the hard way, and the harder question underneath it: where do you stop letting people fail, because the stakes are too high?

This Turkish proverb resonates deeply with me, especially since becoming a father. No matter how many times I warned my children about potential dangers or pitfalls, they often had to learn the hard way. Experience really is the greatest teacher.

The same principle applies in our professional lives. Wisdom isn't handed down — it's earned through trial and error. Reflecting on a twenty-five-year career, I've realised that I'm pretty good at giving people room to fail. I guide them based on my own experiences, but ultimately I let them chart their own course and learn at their own pace.

However, there are instances where the stakes are too high for trial-and-error learning. When a misstep could cost the company dearly or waste precious time, how do you strike a balance?

How do you deal with this? How much of a risk-taker are you?


First posted on LinkedIn, Fri 26 July 2024. · All Friday Thoughts